A Father's Loving Plea
My precious darling daughter, there is much that I need to say
Regarding many dangers that could soon see you led astray.
But there is one important thing, that now, I wish to mention,
And if happiness you want, please give this your full attention.
This world is not the way it was, not that it has been fault-free,
But now, because it has worsened, much more wrong about you’ll see.
Some things can look attractive that in actual fact just hide
That which given half a chance could soon see you taken for a ride.
And such it is with certain men, who’ll try to ply one’s daughter
With some nice gift and hollow words, as they pretend to court her.
Yes, it takes a man to know one, thus the need to say to you,
That many a man’s intentions aren’t honourable or true.
Yes, so many steps are taken by some men who prise consent,
That in time will soon prove to you that they were not Heaven-sent.
And though they will try and fool you that you don’t have need for fear,
An error here could soon see these wise words ringing in your ear.
Any man who’ll truly love you, will never want to hurt you,
Thus, there’ll be no selfish focus in the things he’ll say and do.
However, it can happen, that like this a suitor will seem,
When in fact he’s just fooling you, as that is how some men scheme.
If a man isn't genuine, caution here should find that out,
For in such matters of the heart, you cannot afford a doubt.
So many inexperienced and caught up in emotions
Have suffered miserably due to unsound young devotions.
Thus, men who focus on the body will not be right for you,
So watch your presentation lest you get a man that you’ll rue.
They’ll treat you like an object, though could you wonder that they do
Should sexual titillation be written all over you?
This world is so obsessed with sex, and we shouldn't be surprised,
Given that self-gratification appears to be more prized.
And no wonder many men today with what they're being fed,
When it comes down to women, now think more just in terms of bed.
A man should love you for yourself, and should seek just you to please,
But this, of course, is something that only the right man sees.
A permanent relationship should be built on solid ground,
And as this is so pivotal, don’t marry one who plays around.
For many it’s just like shopping — they will try and then discard,
Unconcerned their philandering can hit some (rejected) hard.
And sadly, many women too, also play this foolish game,
Compounding such behaviour, and thus sharing the shame and blame.
Some men may be good at heart, but sexually addicted;
Though not meaning harm to you, it can surely be predicted.
And bear in mind that any child that might grow up like that dad,
Could also bring you much sadness, and just to your problems add.
All these things here, are said in love, and are a father’s duty,
So that you might avoid a man who’ll rob your life of beauty.
Thus, save yourself for just one man, whose love you’ll always treasure
Because of its unselfishness that does not weigh or measure.
By Lance Landall
The Problem With Sexy
Women of today should rejoice in their gender, their femininity, thus dressing affirmatively,
And that meaning, in an educated way that’s as far removed as possible from masculinity.
And without resorting to the sexy, for a woman who’s truly a woman hardly needs what’s sexy,
Given that she’s comfortable with her very gender, and not the puppet of some fashion industry.
A woman who turns to such, can even convey an inadequacy that requires some prop, as it were,
Or as I said, been duped by those who exploit the female figure for whatever reason — too bad about her.
When men see the sexy, such appeals to their loins, and not their heart, and conveys that she may well be easy,
For someone prepared to flaunt so, (he muses), might also agree to an encounter with him sexually.
Well, that’s what many men assume, for in this world that we live, what’s on display is usually for sale,
And why women who’re dressed sexy will attract the attention of a window shopping, sex desiring male.
In other words, less likely a man whose intentions are honourable-cum-geared t’wards acting selflessly,
And hence why many married men commit adultery, they attracted by some woman who’s dressed sexy.
You see, sexy is all about sex, the physical, and never one’s character or personality,
And therefore draws a man’s attention to that which shouldn’t be given first place, but oft is, obviously.
And when such is given first place, it commonly dominates a male’s thinking, that sexy image replayed,
And why when it comes to a woman’s future happiness and well-being, dressing sexy hasn’t really paid.
Yes, womanly charms usually win the day, but sexy oft sees things go astray, hence those one night stands,
They quite often producing renegade fathers, which any solo mother only too well understands.
And why women should simply rejoice in their gender, their femininity, even sensuality —
Natural womanly ways — unlike that generated sexy, which knows not the soul but just the body.
And hey, men are men, far too easily drawn to a woman’s body without a woman dressing sexy,
Which has seen men viewing women more as objects these days, and why sexy simply acts detrimentally.
Thus, it’s best that a woman refrain from dressing sexy, lest her body betray her by inviting ill,
For when a woman wears clothing that conjures up an image of a bedroom, there’s every chance that it will.
And that’s the problem with sexy, for such hardly attracts commitment-cum-permanency
-cum-loyalty,
And oh, how a woman loves security, such best secured by her character and personality.
Hence why I’d encourage the women of today to just focus on dressing attractively, not sexy,
For sexy is hardly concerned with a woman’s welfare — it not knowing the soul but that time bound body.
By Lance Landall
SOMETHING FOR WOMEN TO PONDER ON
It
appears that many women are dressed in a way that they don’t consider
as sexy but that actually is. Hence their possible surprise. What a
woman may see as relatively harmless can be very stirring to a male.
So
what could be considered as sexy and most likely to indeed draw a man’s
eyes and appeal to his loins and thus his lower nature.
Well, here’s a few things to consider:
Tops and dresses that reveal a woman’s breasts to any degree.
Tops
that tightly cling to a woman’s breasts in order to emphasise every
curve, or such made worse by the above, and including emphasised
nipples.
Skirts
that sit well above the knee coupled with a leggy look that’s
emphasised by high heels — such skirts revealing much thigh when a
woman is seated with her legs crossed.
Skirts, slacks, jeans and shorts that hug both bottom and crutch.
Bare stomachs, or such made worse when low slung shorts, jeans, or slacks are worn.
